relationship issue
my issue problem is that i started to date this man. we both get this are not even a day apart by birth give or take a few hours. the both of us have been severely neglected and abuse in our lives by family, friends, and romantic relationships etc. we are now are 29 soon to turn 30. we both have had extreme dealing with God, christ, and the Holy spirit. We started a relationship he lives in NYC i live in NJ. we meet online and would talk with each other all the time. online i have three screen-names. One of the screen-names I wanted to use it for a fake. I used a picture of a person i had sex with two years ago. I have not heard from or seen since. i wanted to change this picture when i started dating the new man but didn%26#039;t know how to delete it so i left the pic up. i didn%26#039;t know how to take it off. i just got my computer and have been offline for about 8 years. During the relationship I started to getting annoyed and upset because I would see pictures of him with other females also when he would stay up all hours of the night typing talking whatever it was with other females. I would get upset if I heard the sound of an Im%26#039;s being sent to him. I couldn%26#039;t control my feelings of being inadequate, low self esteem, and him leaving me. i fell in love with him. he came down for the weekend and he was called by a female that he stated he said happy mothers day to earlier he said i am with my girl and we will talk later. that was the conversation from him sitting next to me. the next day he left his phone in my car i went to the store i heard a beep and i picked up the phone read a text message from this girl asking if he was home. i texted back to her and asked what did she need from him. this girl texted back that lilly the girls daughter like him and he like the little girl. well um what is this
i asked him he said she is acting ghetto and shoudl have done that. after that day every time i talked to him on the computer he was so mean to me. that kinda text /typing to others i dont like it and i get upset so it further fuel him being mad and upset at me. it just kept adding up to me. he broke it off with after i told him the picture of the who the guy was and i couldn%26#039;t delete it he broke up with me for it. but yet he up all hours of the day and night talking to females and having them call and text him. i see how stupid it is
i just wish it was different what do u think?|||Get over him!!! There are many more guys out there!|||He%26#039;s a player. If a girl has her mom texting some guy about her, she%26#039;s obviously really young and he%26#039;s a pervert. You should just move on, he%26#039;s not as serious about you as you are him, obviously. Let it go and find someone who will love and appreciate you, not treat you like a piece of meat and cheat on you.|||Long distance relationships really don%26#039;t work that well,you used a pic of a guy you used to date and couldn%26#039;t delete that i can understand,he%26#039;s getting texts from other girls that%26#039;s not good,I would say dump him and give yourself time to heal and find out if you want to have a relationship again or not,When your hanging out with other guys and they ask you if you want to go out with them just be honest with them and tell them what%26#039;s happened or not right now but maybe sometime down the line,trust,follow and listen to your heart and go on from there and just take your time don%26#039;t rush.|||so many people get upset once the meet someone over the net and find out the one your now in a relationship with is now i.m,ing e.m.ing others. if this is how u meet one another, why asume there ask other he%26#039;s/she%26#039;s communicating with as well?
i think you we%26#039;re out of line 2 check his phoon then contact this other girl as well. you also are also asking for big problems using some elses picture on a fake account. u need 2 check yourself for doing this .
you%26#039;re guy has every right 2 be pissed at u and if he drops u permanately over this, you%26#039;ll know better in the future. you have issues with neglect and need help resolving them.
good luck
